不戳是啥意思（不辍的意思和拼音）

Arvin, for some unknown reason, has been stuttering since childhood. Can communicate with people normally. Sometimes it is easy to stutter when you are nervous.

Arvin, with a low education background, chose to work as a delivery boy in order to earn more money. He is usually diligent, optimistic and cheerful, and can deliver every order on time. The relationship with nearby restaurants and snack bars is also very good.

阿文，不知什么原因，从小开始，落下了口吃的毛病。可以与人正常交流，有时候一紧张就容易结巴。

阿文，学历不高，为了多赚点钱，选择送外卖的工作。平常干活勤快，乐观开朗，送餐每一单都能准时送达。与附近餐馆小吃店的关系搞得也挺好的。

One day, in a newly opened noodle shop, the boss saw that Arvin stuttered and was very funny and humorous, so he also learned to stutter and communicated with Arvin.

As the saying goes, expose people without exposing their shortcomings, and say people without saying pain. Once or twice Arvin didn't care. He thought that maybe the other party was just joking. After a long time, it became more and more awkward. One day, Arvin and the store owner said: don't learn from me again. The owner of the store didn't think so, so they quarreled and started to fight.

After the incident, everyone did not understand that Arvin was always good-natured. Why did he fight.

有一天，一家新开业的面馆，老板看到阿文说话结巴，很搞笑幽默，于是也学着结巴的口气，和阿文沟通交流。

俗话讲，揭人不揭短，说人不说痛。一次两次阿文没在乎，觉得可能对方只是开个玩笑而已。时间长了，越来越别扭，有一天，阿文和店老板说:你不要再来学我说话。店老板也觉得不以为然，最终两人吵了起来，动手打了起来。

事情发生后，大家都不理解，阿文脾气一向很好，为什么会打架。

It is a kind of self-cultivation to speak without pricking people. It is an extremely immoral act to preach and even joke about the pain of others.

Speak with discretion and behave with measure. Stabbing a person at a painful point is like throwing salt at someone else's wound. You don't know why others care so much, because you don't have empathy. Only when you are in someone else's position can you really feel the same.

Others endure you because they are cultured, but they can't always tolerate you without a bottom line. Be a cultured person and don't let others hate you.

说话不戳人痛处，是一种做人的修养。拿别人痛处到处宣讲，甚至开玩笑，是一种极不道德的行为。

说话有分寸，做人有尺度。戳人痛点，如同在别人伤口处撒盐，你不知道别人为什么这么在意，因为你没有换位思考，你处在别人的位置上，才会真正地感同身受。

别人忍耐你，是因为有修养，但不能一直毫无底线的忍让，做个有修养的人，不要让别人痛恨烦感。